Forever has its own death.

Hey lovely stars,

Have you ever wondered why we chase the illusion of forever in a world that's delightfully fleeting?

Today’s message is both a whisper and a shout from the heart, dearly stringent and bitterly earnest. It’s a crushing reminder that everything we hold dear will one day fade away, leaving behind only memories and lessons. Whether you feel lonely in a crowd or alone in solitude, these feelings shape us, not by their presence but by how we understand them.

'I will never leave you'

'You’re my reason for everything'

'You and me forever'

'I cannot live without you'

'You mean everything to me'

'Whatever happens it will never end'

'Always 💔'

The strange part is not that these are ACTUAL words people deliberately say, they are already known broken 'forevers'. The bitter truth is that these are confined meaningless dimensions of the soul. Funny how they always say it like they would and will actually mean it. But we all know it never lasts, just the drastic fact.

No, I am not here to complain or dismantle anybody from their blossoming or stable relationships.

The world we live in is a beautiful lie, so let me narrate to you and myself - the mortally immortal tale of 'forevers' ;

With all the complicated relationships we are in, with all the toxicity in our surroundings, with every family member we admire deeply, with all those 'real' friends of ours, with every love and beloved we discover, with every promise we embrace, all these too dear, discloses a variable too hard to equate, too hard to digest, too hard to learn, too hard to discover........ A demanding one at last.

Ultimately the one which might just shatter you, temporarily should it be, for forever doesn't always last, it has its own death and you might reminisce in its past, but remember that the past was not forever, neither is your present or will your future, for forever too dies, many a times but it just never tells you when, sometimes not even the why and in the end, then you too shall die..

We humans, are always in a chase, are always running after something we do not know why, we always want and want and want-more and more and more, we keep lurking in the darkness to find more light, only to then switch it off and cry. THEN WE WANT A HAPPYILY FOREVER AFTER. I am sure you have heard of - "And they all lived happily ever after.." Like man how do I know you are not lying to me? Where is my merry ever and after? And is it really going to be happy? Is this the end?

Some questions life answers. Some you answer yourself. No matter what phase, conflict, sticky situation, toxicity or pandemonium you find yourself in, just remember this too like others will pass by, just a matter of time and it shall bid me a hearty goodbye. It’s important to put yourself first and take care of your own well-being, especially in a world where nothing lasts forever. Prioritizing your own needs is not selfish—it’s NECESSARY for your true happiness.

Remember, while relationships and promises may be ephemeral, taking care of yourself remains ESSENTIAL! Balance is key: Focus on your needs while being mindful not to hurt others unnecessarily.

You were born alone, you die alone and return alone too.

Appreciate,

Love,

Admire,

Strengthen,

Talk,

Discover,

Create,

and build yourself my dear stars.

WE still struggle a lot, nobody's life is perfect, that is as rare as hen's teeth. Many people are going to leave-anybody may it shall be : We already have had a lot leave us, I understand; mean teachers, fake friends, supposedly best friends, toxic family members........They might not leave 'leave' yet they may be distant, seldomly talk, distressing arguments, upsetting lies, hurtful curses, false rumors and remorseful words. It it is a vile mannerism of life, and we must be strong enough to face the its unmerciful reality how much ever it hurts, it hurts a lot I know yet WE MUST! NEVER BACK DOWN.

They say you only live once. That is not entirely true-When god decides to let you breathe the next day; you wake up, see the sunshine, feel the light and sleep at night. YOU get a CHANCE to LIVE your life EVERYDAY. You get a chance to get the hell up even though everything is mortally downhill, you have the ability to make your moments, create them meaningfully, thoughtfully and sweetly. DO IT! Life is bitterly warm and sourly loving, but that does not mean missing out on distinct and thrilling opportunities, let yourself breathe, FLY with those mortal wings mortals.

SO in ultimatum -

Make your mind the paper,

Make your conscience the pencil,

Make your soul the pen,

Make your heart the highlighter,

Make your past the eraser,

Make your present the glue,

Let the mistakes you made be tape,

Your morals your right pair of scissors,

Your regret the stapler,

And your future the folder.

In the end, just take the test of life

no matter what be the results

no matter the boundless wrongs

you shall in the end still triumph.

For your journey was what mattered,

The student of life is, was and will be a crest-fallen ethereal test,

For forever too dies in it's godforsaken celeste.

“Parting is such sweet sorrow that I shall say goodnight till it be morrow.”
― Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet.

CREDITS -

I would like to convey my thanks to Sir William Shakespeare for the lovely quote, My dear friend NK whom I had a deep talk regarding this, to all the toxic experiences I have had <<33 And last but not the least MYSELF obviously!!

Till then,

With the most whimsical affection,

XOXO,

MYM